LWK recalls JS saying women would have a choice in eternity.
"Statement of Mrs. L.W. Kimball" in Lyman Omer Littlefield, Reminiscences of Latter-day Saints: Giving an Account of Much Individual Suffering for Religious Conscience (Logan, UT: The Utah Journal Co., Printers, October 1888), 46
[Joseph Smith] said men must beware how they treat their wives. They were given them for a holy purpose that the myriads of spirits waiting for tabernacles might have pure and healthy bodies. He also said many would awake in the morning of the resurrection sadly disappointed; for they, by transgression, would have neither wives nor children, for they surely would be taken from them, and given to those who should provide themselves worthy. Again he said, a woman would have her choice; this was a privilege that could not be denied her.