M. Russell Ballard teaches that Church leaders are normal human beings like everyone else, with each having "strong personalities"; however, when they are unified in a decision, one can be sure it has come as a result of careful thought and prayer.
M. Russell Ballard, “Be Still, and Know That I Am God," CES Devotional for Young Adults, San Diego, May 4, 2014, accessed November 6, 2023
However, there is something about the individual and combined wisdom of the Brethren that should provide some comfort. We have experienced it all, including the consequences of different public laws and policies, disappointments, tragedies, and deaths in our own families. We are not out of touch with your lives.
Let me also observe that none of the Twelve are shrinking violets. We each have strong personalities. So when we are unified in a decision, you can rest assured that we have counseled together and come to that decision after much prayer and thoughtful discussion.